My friend talked about 'love is a choice', lately..
She said that we have to be smart enough to choose who to fall for, and I couldn't agree more.
Why else would people stay single for a long time? Simply because we haven't found the right person yet, right? Or.. is it? How would we know it's the right person if we haven't try?
Yes, we humans make lots of choices over our lifetime..
There are the right ones and the wrong and bad ones.
How do we tell them apart before we take our choice?
See, I think a lot--although might not seem so, and I do get distracted a lot, so most of my thinking just goes into the black hole inside of my head--and I observe. When I may not be able to observe a lot of people, I observe myself. Sure it is hard to be objective, but I observing does give me a lot to think about, to pay attention to. So what I've got from observing..
There's absolutely no way to tell them apart.
You just choose what you believe, and deal with it. How you deal with it, THAT'S determined whether it's a good or bad choice. But before? I don't think there's anyway to tell...
See, we're humans, are a very complicated beings. One of the things that I keep saying that we aren't born satisfied. When we're on school, we wish for holiday, when we're on holiday, otherwise. We're also very curious, risks-taking, and sometimes foolish--but not knowing it until it is, sadly, too late. When we're faced with 2 options and we HAVE to choose ONE, we'll choose it, alright. But we'll spend, if not little, our own entire life wondering what would it be if we took the other.
Of course we could try to make a list of the positives and the negatives of taking each options, but what would your heart say? *smirk*
We're a complicated beings because, IMHO, we have more than one guidance throughout our life. Animals have instinct. They know when they're hungry, who's nice, who's to love and why (the reason usually simple--because he is my master, like Dug in Up), what to do in danger, and all of those things they do, are based on instincts. Animals don't have what we have, "DOUCHEBAG" brain and "FOOLISH" heart. I'm calling our brain douchebag is because, most of the time, it is. Feeling snobby, know-it-all, trying to figure shits out with logic. Logic! And our foolish heart that simply won't stop saying the exact opposite of our douchebag brain... Why can't the two just get along? Besides, hearts are foolish because it is simply too easy to fool! The brain's too smart for that, but then again, logic? Heart knows no logic! So there you go.. War inside of your system..
Well, talking about this, I simply can't write a great closure, heck, even just a closure is hard to make when the topic's as silly. Because apparently, hearts can be wrong to, you know. Why? Because it doesn't have brain.
Sorry if it's not funny :p
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